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Update: He's not been ignoring me, after all. There was/is an emergency at work which has been taking all his time and energy. He is not put off or upset by the arrangement I am suggesting. He just needs to get the work issue resolved before he can give the discussion of 'us' the attention it...

Hmm, yes I can see that was a mistake of mine...not telling him right off the bat that I am poly. The problem is that I am barely beginning to accept this polyamory stuff about myself. I'm not yet to the point where I feel comfortable just putting it out there from the very start. But I can...

In my limited experience, it seems that men are fine with having an affair with me, but the instant they learn that my husband knows about them and is okay with us being together, they RUN in the other direction. Why is this? Because of this, I have never gotten to the point of physically...

I am a 39 year old female, married a very long time. My husband is monogamous, but I seem hardwired for polyamory. I am finally beginning to accept this aspect of myself without negative self-judgment. Husband has been better about understanding me than I have. He arrived at a place of peace...