Correct! I had an ah ha moment and H was like oh shit! What I love about H right now is that we are communicating about all this and I feel he’s coming around. Communication is key after all, right?
I like your point of view of mourning the old marriage. I would say that is entirely accurate. I...
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Dinged heart......
When we opened our marriage it was with very little knowledge of what we might be getting into. I’m not sure we even knew the term polyamorous then. I thought having a “side piece” as we called it would add joy to our lives. Same for him. I had a...
Exactly Mags
Mags, I think you’re right. My H is worried I’d leave him if I fell in love with someone else. On the flip side, his own research into Poly has taught him the different ways people live Poly. One being that I could possibly want to live with my BF even part time. He doesn’t like...
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Dingedheart, very good questions!
The possibilities we discussed were all over the place. From NSA to boyfriends, we touched upon many different scenarios. Since we were new, we thought we’d “see what happens” and write the rules as we went. To bend and adjust with each new...
EVIEs thought experiment
Thank you so much! I think you hit the nail on the head with your thought experiment.......
When I was younger, I was in love with 2 people at the same time. One of them is my husband now. It really messed me up back then because I didn’t think you were suppose to love...
I am a married woman in my late 30s and have been with my husband a very long time. We tried to open our relationship to see if Polyamoury was right for us. I had feelings for someone else and wanted to explore them and he was originally excited about the possibilities. But as it carried on, my...