Recent content by polishguy

Hi, I am Jason, though lots of people call me JT. I am 36 and I live in Montreal, Canada. I am very new the whole polyamory thing, having fallen madly in-love with a polyamorous woman who just moved to another city. I am still dealing with my insecurities, though my love assures me I am...

Again, thank you all for your support. I have talked a lot with my girlfriend. I can share my fears and insecurities and it has been rather liberating. She is exploring (well, a bit more than just explore) getting involved with someone in her hometown (I was aware of this before hand...

as a side note, I mentionned that I was scared of saying something hurtful, but I usually am extremely good at holding my tongue. I will definately try to apply the advice I received to the best of my abilities based on the circumstances.

True, one cannot have enough good friends. I have been reading a lot on the link Ceoli posted. Lots of it seems to apply to me. Some does not, but I guess that is just normal. Again, thank you for the warm welcome and answering. Part of me was worried that I was crazy or something like...

Interestingly enough... last night I was on the phone with her... Despite having a really rough day her self, I asked her to listen to something important for us. I told her it was for the better if I said it, and to listen until I was completely done. At that point, I know she could hear...

Reading these comments do help. At least, it gives me a direction to look at on how to deal with my issue. That 1st link also helps a bit. Makes me examine why I am afraid. As for counseling, as much as I know, I would go there, and end up not talking. I only shared my "past" with her...

Hi, I will say that I am new to the whole concept of polyamory, at least when it comes to me. I would describe myself as a "mono" who recently entered a serious relationship with a polyamorous woman who does not live in the same city. I am asking some advice as I know very well my problem...