Recent content by Pollly3

So , until 2yrs 8 months ago I had been monogamous because it was the only choices I felt I had growing up in a Christian household. 4 long-term relationships which amounted to a shit load of nothing, a few dalliances and feeling unfulfilled I was approached by a couple and everything changed...

Thanks Thanks for that. As I get on well with the people I come across, I am sure it will be cool::cool:

Fascinating but scary Hi everyone, As a black woman born in England I have found this discussion fascinating. I have experience very little racism in my life and no racism when it comes to sexuality. My first and only poly experience has been with a black couple but I don't believe their...

Welcome Hi tigger4peace, well done for sticking with and loving your partner the way you do. I understand how depressed one can become because of illness, being a caregiver can be exhausting but that just proves what a beautiful heart you have and empathy is hard to find in people these days...

Thanks, too much soul searching I think.:)

Thank you Thank you Leander, I read Franklin Veaux's views on privilege and found it truly enlightening; I can now put several aspect of my relationship into perspective and use this to define the type of poly which is naturally me. In the article I saw so many assumptions which have not been...

A little more Thanks Kevin T, Yes I am still in the relationship with the couple though I am questioning If I should stay at the moment. I love the fact that I am poly but have a feeling there is a lot more to my new found reality. I have no problem with disagreeable people as it take all kinds...

Hi everyone, I am relatively new to the poly scene even though I suspect that I was always this way; a couple of years ago I was due to marry my man after being together for 14 years, a few month before the wedding he dropped a bomb shell and we broke up. I had become friends with a couple and...