Recent content by PollyBolly

Yes it's takes a lot of me checking with myself to uncover from which place I'm choosing my privacy. I do keep my group of intimates small. Everyone else is need to know so you are exactly one point. I've already told most of my intimates about him but more out of the girlish excitement rather...

I totally get you. I grew up being a very "different" person who always went against the grain. For a long time I silenced myself because I was tired of butting against more conservative/traditional mindsets. Tired, drained, hurt etc. Now I realized that yes I shouldn't have to hide myself but...

My tone always sounds very blunt when I write which is so opposite my actual tone but I don't know how to fix that lol. I didn't think you came off attacking or negatively I just wanted to address that because as I said, you all seem so open with your lives and I've just never been that way so I...

Fair enough and makes total sense. I'm wondering how the partners feel about it. I'm not sure if you were inferring this but just in case, I wanted to say that I don't think I'm being NOT open-minded. Just private.

Oh I know it was a suggestion. I just wanted to share that (also because I know my post come off very closed or serious so I wanted to throw out a little personality). It's a plausible suggestion. I'm just not sure. I guess that's an option to toss around when we do talk. I don't mind being...

Just a funny? FYI. When I was younger I used to wear a fake ring to stop male street harassment. Not relevant to topic but I thought I'd share.

Well first that is what I wanted to know regarding standard practice. My main thing is I don't know what to expect. We've just gone on one date and decided to continue. I have no problem speaking with him about this when we next meet but I am more the type to research and understand things...

Interesting. I'm still not sure about all of this. It isn't intended to be a long term relationship. I haven't been in one in a while and I miss them but for reasons too long to get into, I don't see myself finding the one I want to build my life with (I'm monogamus) coming in anytime soon. This...

Hey All, So it looks like I'll be a secondary relationship to a man in a married couple. I'm completely new to all of this although I have quite a few poly friends. I'm am fine so far about things but one question has popped up in my head. To the married polys, when you are with your secondary...