Recent content by Pollywog

That is great advice! She says that she still really enjoys sex even without orgasm. I have a hard time accepting that. I've never had an issue with orgasm. For me it feels so great, and happens so easily that I can't imagine being satisfied without it. For her it has always come pretty easily...

My "big"family is located in the very conservative south, and we've told all three of our children. My 10 yr old was very concerned about keeping secrets, but when I started quizzing her about the personal lives of her friends parents it began to make sense. Keeping a secret, and having private...

We have talked about it a couple of times. She assures me that she enjoys us both equally, but differently. I know how much she loves me, and would not want to hurt me. I'm also not sure if she is ready to admit to herself exactly where the proportions fall. It is the non verbal tales that she...

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Almost two years ago my wife (of over a decade) came to me with a request to pursue a relationship with another woman. We had been friends with this other woman, and her husband (also over a decade) for a while. I agreed, and they began seeing each other. We had never had an open relationship in...