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hope is still abundant. when i first introduced the idea of poly to him, i didnt go about it well, and sort of took an 'all or nothing' attitude toward it. i did back off and we went almost a year without talking about it. now that i've softly broached the subject again, he's more receptive to...

this is the problem into which i keep running with the monogamous party in this sitch; i can give as many assurances as i can, but i think unless he finally consents to opening up and realizes that what i'm saying is true, he may not ever believe me :(

Thanks for all the replies! a couple more questions: what were the biggest misgivings you guys personally had about it, and how long did it take for that to go away? sorry for the quizzing -- im in a weird situation involving siblings. one is mono and the other is polyflexible

thanks! i will check it out.

i'm sorry; i'm still learning the terminology. a V is what i mean :)

have any of you successfully been in a relationship with two members of the same family? or at least tried it? say, two cousins, two sisters, etc, etc.