Recent content by Polyenvy

Well, I did ask for help, even if the words were tough for me to face. But to answer some of those questions, TinCup... It's sticky, and complicated, but yes. I've not been deceptive with my spouse or anyone else. I just think she chalks so much up to physical intimacy, which are non-existent...

This alone has given me a lot to think about. And indeed, love alone isn't enough. I appreciate the insight you offer.

Thanks for the help, Pigwidgeon. I spoke more with my wife this morning. She agreed to listen to the audiobook version of Untrue. I told her I'd let her explore the concepts, thoughts, ethics without pressuring her. I'm still nervous that it's a lost cause. But I appreciate all your help!

Thanks to those of you who responded. But, the two responses I got suggested two separate courses of action: 1) hold out, see if spouse may understand over time. 2) prepare for divorce, it's the only ethical thing to do. I looked elsewhere for terminology, couldn't find it. Galagirl, what do...

Greetings. I'm a 37 y/o cis het male from Pennsylvania. I am married with three children. Christian background. Monogamous. Except ... I don't want to be. Starting around the same time as COVID, I have desperately wanted to branch out. I do not love my wife any less, and I do not want to lose...