Yeah. I totally understand that. And I may not be the most geeky guy ever, but I do love Harry Potter! :)
I used not to have that reaction spontaneously, a long time ago, and would end up crushing on long-term close friends. Guess how much fun that was? :D
But I kind of trained myself out of...
Experinces of a married straight poly guy
I´m only talking here about my own personal experiences and that of other married poly straight guys I know.
It may be harder for a straight woman to find a partner who´s really poly and willing to be together long-term, once they´ve dated them. A lot...