Recent content by polynHR

You know, some of the people on here are full of themselves. I wasn't complaining, just making an observation. You know we all aren't as seasoned as some of the folks on here. I'm sure if I try harder enough I will be successful. Due to the lack of good advice on this site I will find it hard to...

NYCindie, two months after starting this, she met her other partner. That relationship is going strong. We have let the dynamics of that relationship sink in. It's not that I'm trying to rush into something, or trying to do her one better. It's actually her pushing me to find a partner of my...

Hi, Like everyone else here, I have read a few posts and replied. Now it's my turn to ask for advice. My wife and I have been learning and living the poly lifestyle for about a year. This year she has met several potential partners. However, I have met none. Why is it difficult to meet...

Happy Birthday. I hope your day is special

Erin Me suggesting Colorado was me being selfish. You seem like a nice caring person and I don't have a problem with curvy women :D. Plus this being poly is both new and difficult for my wife and I. As far as you two getting alone based off what I've read from you so far leads me to...

Erin I don't know if my insurance covers things like this, I will have to look into it. However, I do know that there should be some sort of solution that you company provides. Check with your HR department to see if there is a counselor on stand by for your company. Also there are other free...

Erin, we are here for you. Remember the race isn't given to the fastest, but to the ones that endure the longest. You have already won. In ten years of marriage, you've managed to get bachelor's and master's degrees, whereas he refuses to try. So he may be a little envious of you. Keep your...

Yes, it is weird that a grown man never ask for sex. I'm willing to bet you that he his cheating. You see, when he called you overweight he was just trying to justify to himself a good reason for sleeping with someone else. Secondly, unless he is masturbating every day, then he has to be. As far...

Erin, you have taken a very important step to your freedom. I like what someone said about him being controlling. I shared your story with my wife and first she thanked me for not being that way when she was discovered cheating. We both feel that you should not cheat on him. That will just add...

Pantheist, This is where you must begin you communications. You agreed that if Morgan became your primary, then you could have a secondary. The problem is, you have allowed Morgan to dictate the agenda. I agree it seems like she got what she wanted, and ignored what you wanted. Also, if she...

Let me start off by saying that, as a man, I'm sorry you have to go through something like this. My wife and I were in a similar situation last year. We both sat down and talk about it. It was I who suggested polyamory Let me say that you are not weird in your feelings. I believe that your...