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Steve and Betty's divorce will be final in 21 days so I am done with the Quad relationship and going forward with our Triad.

Our Quad relationship has finally ended. On to the next Triad adventure. :)

Our Quad is officially done with. Betty & Steve will be divorced in 21 days so I am discontinuing this blog and probably starting a Triad blog. :)

KDT....what does your current sleeping arrangements look like? Do you all sleep together? Separate rooms and she goes back and forth?

Agreed wholeheartedly. At this point....he can't be trusted.

We all live together and are in a poly-fidelity relationship so their business is my business and my business is their business. It is the level of communication and commitment that we have established this relationship with....and with full consent. There is no rule book and not every...

I will have to disagree with you on your comments. Betty creates her own stress and has done so way before our quad even existed. That is why Steve and Betty are in the situation that they are in today. As much as I "vent" in my blog, we have never made Betty feel as though she is not wanted. We...

What is right for us is a V relationship. We already have one without her knowledge. We just don't know how to exclude her at this point? Should we let her live with us a roommate until she can get on her feet? Do we just rip off the band-aid and cut ties? We want to do the right thing by her.

This month we celebrated our 1 year Quad lifestyle and with great reflection, three of us are contemplating a V scenario, which would exclude my BF's wife of 25 years. When Peter and I met them, Betty and Steve were sleeping apart and close to divorce. My husband found interest in Betty but only...

Come to find out.....Steve has been trying to figure out what to do with Betty since he basically has no relationship with her any more. This is why he is preoccupied.

Betty has finally accepted the three of us sleeping together once a week. She gets a little pissy when it is time for Steve to come up to our room. On another note.....Steve is talking more and more about divorce from Betty. I think he is just tired of her after 25 years but doesn't really...

Steve and I are in a bit of a spat. I started working the overnight shift and have been a little tired lately so sex has been sporadic. Last night, I wanted to be intimate and didn't get the same signal from him so I questioned our NRE. He asked if I was a little disappointed in him and I told...

When all three of you go out, do you have public displays of affection?

On Saturday Betty spoke with an addictions counselor through her job for 2 hours. The woman basically told her that since she doesn't drink everyday they consider her a "binge drinker" and not an alcoholic. I am not sure that I believe that because it has been going on for so long and probably...

This past week was fun (sarcastic voice). Steve basically ripped the band-aid off and told Betty that he would be sleeping upstairs occasionally and she lost her shit. She literally screamed at him like a mad woman for hours and behaved like a teenager demanding to get her way. There is nowhere...