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This is going to sound mental, I literally shed a tear at that first sentence. I think i just need someone to 'get me' right now. That little setence helped. Thank you Leetah. Ill ponder the rest and consider. Cheers for the advice.

Hi Everyone. I'm struggling at the moment. Myself and my partner split up a couple months ago. She decided she wanted manogamy. Thats fine. Its her values and i respect that. It makes alot of sense in many ways. She never asked me to change and i admire the heck out of that. Now she is dating...

Just an update. The relationship ended. You were all correct. Appeasing or no Appeasing the need made no difference, there were massive emotional dysfunction in the other relationship and it leaked into my new relationship. It was both our faults for not protecting our new relationship from...

Hi Everyone. OP here I just wanted to thank everyone for their advice in this thread. It was really useful and gave me alot of food for thought when coming to make my decision. Appreciate the helpful views. PP

Hi Everyone. I am involved in my first poly relationship (I identify completely as poly and feel very comfortable with the emotional side of it). I am in a poly relationship for years but this is my first time having a second partner. I am having a problem with my new girlfriend which I...