Recent content by polyprof82

She keeps saying that this person is her friend too, but I think him being a lover and romantic partner makes it more complicated. Once he starts learning things about me that I didn't want to tell him, I feel like he becomes competition. That's the other problem. I don't know this guy very...

I'm new here, but I have lurked for a few hours this morning and haven't seen my question addressed in other threads. My problem is about boundaries and rules/ agreements. I recently realized that it is important for me to know that my primary partner comes to me first (and preferably last)...