Recent content by Polywaw

Duly noted. And fixed.

I'm not sure what flopswoggled means, I hope it's like mindboggled. As the male half of a long-term couple (oh shoot.. what is it? 8? 7? years, something like that)... we've had our share or adventures. None have been deeper or longer term than with "R." It was with R that my wife and I...

Missed

I agree about abusive relationships. I'd like to point out that abusive people usually hold a lot of anger against themselves and others that runs pretty deep, and it is possible to get over this (possible, not common). I've also noticed with some people in my life, they go through some dark...

Welcome to the site! I think you're like many couples out there who, especially when first exploring poly, consider themselves looking only for a third individual (whether man or woman, usually woman it seems). This woman is the unicorn (a bi chick who wants you both). If you check out over...

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It was a big step for us to stop actively searching and pining after a third. I've spent some time the last few days here updating and putting us out there, but it's more of trying to be part of the poly community. From reading so much of this site, it doesn't really seem like a couple goes...

grocery

That makes a lot of sense and describes someone i know very well. Thanks!

Not to necro a topic that's been dead for a few months, but I felt like I should probably post here as the most active user of a shared account. We're a him and her, and the Him (me) is far more active here, although she browses, reads, and posts as well. We're a shared enough relationship...

I have to say, seeing a unicorn and understand what they're going through is really refreshing. As unicorn 'hunters' (seekers?), we've come across many women who are searching, but it turns out they're attached and just looking for a playmate, something that was left out of a lot of profiles...

Sport sex? The whole casual aspect of sex for me doesn't really exist. No emotional connection = little reason for sex. However, recreational/enjoyment/non-procreational, yeah, absolutely, I just need emotions.

Lover-friend. I like that! I think it's a very good term.

Oddly enough, a simple term might help. Friends-with-benefits. I don't see it used in terms of established relationships and poly very often, but I can see how it fits what you're looking for. It's something my wife and I have dealt with. A friend you can connect to, hang out, go to movies...