Recent content by Pooka

things did not go as I hoped though. while nothing is decided, she says she has to think about how we came to this position, what she really is feeling, how could she almost ventured what we have for someone else if her emotions are still true and what am I to her now. this seems like a...

haha I just cleaned entirely "down there," including all my rear hairs, for the first time. It feels and seems interesting... and bit kinky, I think. :unsure:

of course it most certainly is just is. yet brain and heart have a hard time functioning together in times of such emotional crysis. thanks for reminding though. things are much better now, I love her with renewed energy and she is recovering and responding to my love again now. we are most...

so, after two weeks or something, things did not improve really but went crazy instead for some time. my girlfriend is heartbroken but still thinking about the guy very much, and although he seemed to tell his feelings are over and that he wants to be afriend he may be sending some misguiding...

I don't know. I like the feel of two bare skins touching each other. Worth having a bit of itching and hurting, which occasionally is also fun. As I've said, I also like the alternative. ;)

Well, okay. I don't know if the brand is also sold in the countries you live in, but I usually use Lapiden. Veet is said to be better, but I did not use. BTW, it certainly itches when the hair is growing back, but the creme itself does not cause irritation, in my experience. And it is effective.

update: they broke up during my girlfriend's visit, and she is in much pain now. according to my girlfriend, he claimed that he felt my sadness and did not want to make me sad, that he has a jealous, monogamous side and could not understand how she can do this with me in her mind. I will be...

I do it sometimes, mainly because both my girlfriend and I like the feel and view. We also like it the other way, so I let the hair grow for some time, including armpits (means more frequent cleaning, obviously), and then I shave completely, including balls. I do not use razors anymore, though...

thanks again, I think I'll proceed and talk to her about that when she returns tomorrow. my, it is so weird to think that she is with him at this particular moment and will stay overnight. whatever =) I'll restrain myself from calling. if all parties are fine with it we can meet two weeks...

only some know. family and most friends don't. yet. many of my friends are openly queer though. edit: I don't like the bisexual label btw, I use it just for the sake of preventing confusion =) I like humans

well yes certainly it adds a bit more burden. for instance, her parents do not even know that we live together, although my family knows and visits us occasionally as we visit them. families and even some close friends do not know many things including poly! add to that most probably both of us...

oh an additional question: although I read many things about NRE's effect on poly here, I'd like to ask this question that keeps me a bit freaked out. we had only small problems common to almost all relationships and a bit of that 'getting-too-used-to-together' feeling before this, but all in...

thanks for the welcome

thanks for your comments. they are big help to me and us right now. I underestimated the difficulty of poly and when I realised it really can be difficult, this site helped me not to be a sour person (which I always knew is a no no in relationships) @ray - yes the problem is nre and...

For me, the trouble is insecurity. Although (after 2 years of discussion) I introduced the poly style to my girlfriend, it happened so that (after a few sexual relationships) she found a deep emotional relationship first. We both feel not ready for this, yet there is no return, but forward now...