Recent content by Portia

Well...I suppose that does sum of up. He writes, " I see now that I'm essentially trying to bargain my way into a different relationship with her, and that's futile. If she doesn't accept the change then I have to decide whether I value my happiness more than hers. So the healthy conversation...

I previously responded to a few threads on here started by my husband "Lysander." To summarize for those who weren't following, my husband has come to the conclusion that he is poly. I am mono, and this is not going to change. Therefore, I've expressed to my husband that I cannot be in a poly...

My husband works, but he has substantially more free time than I do. I have been the primary earner for years while he has had the freedom to pursue his entrepreneurial dreams. I also have the primary emotional responsibility for our two small children, and I spend most of my time outside of...

Hi. This is Lysander's wife. Just wanted to clarify a few things on this thread. First, I always have worked. In fact, I spent several years as the primary earner while also raising young children. I take my marriage vows very seriously. I pledged before God and our mutual family and friends...

Speaking as Lysander's wife, I'm not a gold digger at all. I've been the primary earner for 5 years. It's exhausting. I also have two small children. I love my husband. It would be accurate to call me Demi-sexual as I find emotion/love to be essential for my sexual desire. The fact that I find...