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nycindie - Yes, the fact that he already knew her, and had for a long time was a big part of why it was more acceptable. She's a friend, if not my friend, yet. He already has some kind of relationship with her, so it wasn't as if he just saw someone, thought they were interesting or pretty or...

If what I got at the outset was advice, I failed to recognize it. It felt like disgust and condemnation. We did not 'decide', it was simply conjecture. All theory, just talk. Obviously, things would change or be rejected entirely after discussions with C. Never anywhere did I say this was set...

I'm female. Most female's I know have a tendency to plan things out. Its not a "This is how it will be", its more of a "This is what I think/hope". You can't tell me that no one's ever fallen in love quickly before. Seriously? It does happen kids. I know people that have been happily married...

This is where my partial summarization of the situation has made things messy. My husband, C and her boyfriend have been friends for about a year. He's known the boyfriend for a many years. The week with them was a planned vacation. It just happened that their relationship started to crack...

Actually, you may have hit something there. We did meet a few months before I ended an engagement. We were friends during that time, but shortly after my breakup felt like there might be something more. At that time, he was half way across the country from me. Our relationship had been conducted...

She does have friends, though few family. I don't know how close she is with any of them. The brother she was closest to was killed a few months ago in an as of yet, unsolved crime. Of course, if she felt more comfortable going to stay with them, that'd be perfectly okay. No one is saying she...

Ok. That's miscomunication on my part. It wouldn't be "Hi, welcome to our home. Lets go screw." We had a rough plan of maybe a series of visits, sort of like dating. To give her (and us) time to see if this relationship would even be feasable. Just how we'd go about that was something to be...

Well, its disturbing that it comes across that way. It's certainly not the intention. At this point, we have backed off. No more will be said unless she brings it up. I'm still a bit lost as to why the desire to take care of someone you love is creepy, but we may just be looking at it from...

Wow. Ok. So not the response I was expecting. Obviously, I'm not explaining this very well. The title of the thread may have been a poor choice as well. (Also, I'm thinking I put this thread in the wrong category.) He isn't simply going to bring "her home to fuck her and show her what a good...

Basic situation: My husband (G) and I have been married 10yrs. Recently, he's come to me with a proposition. A female friend of his (C), is going through a particularly rough patch in her life. Mostly involving her current relationship with her boyfriend who is a good friend of G's. Her...