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Hey Ironconey, I'm glad my experiences could be of some help to you. That's great! Having now been in an open relationship for two years, I can say that my feelings of jealousy have diminished considerably. Mind you, my boyfriend isn't in any other significant relationships, he just sometimes...

He lives about 500 miles away. He's going to stay where he is until next spring. I think our relationship is kind of fizzling... :'(

Hey Kevin, Thanks for writing. It means a lot to know there are folks like me out there. Yup, I am trying (albeit badly) to chill out about things. My friend doesn't really want to talk to me and it seems my boyfriend is also kind of withholding affection from me for some reason lately. So, I...

Hey Ironconey, I'm also 28 and kinda new to polyamory as well, but I've been in an open relationship for the past year so maybe I'm a bit more experienced? Certainly this is uncharted territory and I find myself vacillating often, asking myself, 'is this really what I want?' So, I think some...

Hey Token, I'm sorry to hear you've been so depressed. I understand how intense this must feel for you right now, but please know that it will settle and that time heals all. That your boyfriend has disregarded the rules you laid out clearly is really not hot, but I hope that you can look past...

I recommend OKCupid which has a poly search option. I'm not sure about straight dating apps lol, but maybe Tinder or other apps have the option to search for other partnered or open folks?

Hey Norwegianpoly, Thanks for your response and sorry for the delayed response. It sounds lovely! A really with a good balance of personalities and situations. It seems you don't mind being ganged up on! ;) It seems your boyfriends can relate to each other through you. I wouldn't mind this kind...

Hey, Galagirl. Thank you for the solidarity and I'm sorry for the delayed response. You're totally right. My friend was honest with me and I actually really appreciate that. As it happens, we haven't really spoken since June so it's a bit of a moot point now. Maybe I'll contact him again (just...

Sorry for the late response ^^; To be honest, I'm not entirely sure if I'm looking for multiple love relationships or a non-monogamous relationship. I guess all of the above? I'm pretty open-minded to trying new types of relationships of all sorts, but right now I'm just trying to be honest and...

Hey, Kevin! Thank you for taking the time to write! Your insight has brought me some clarity. Yes, I probably don't do so well in a monogamous relationship, huh? haha I should really accept this about myself. A person's attractiveness can make things exponentially harder but I must press on...

I hope it helps! I do the mindfulness exercises too even though I don't have an anxiety disorder just to help reduce stress and anxiety. Thank you for your advice. You know, I really think my boyfriend would be incredibly receptive to all of those, especially going further to show him that I...

Hello! Thank you for your response. It's inspiring for me to hear that things are going well for you three! What a nice family you have! I guess my real problem is that aside from not knowing whether I want to propose a Vee relationship with them or not, I'm also dreadfully unsure about whether...

Hello again! These are some beautiful examples of lovely relationships! It is very comforting for me to hear of so many successful Vee relationships. Wow, congratulations to Phy!! It seems if the outcome of a Vee were to occur, that my own relationship would likely also evolve in its own...

I see. Well, I guess it would be an option because they both seem to really like me. I suppose I'm the "least common denominator" here! haha So, they are friends but not sexual together, just with you, seperately. Can I ask? Is this relationship working for you three? It's maybe a very direct...

Thanks for kindly reading and advising me. You're right. I can't give him the fidelity he's seeking. I think even if I tried hard I could only sustain it for a few months. I wish I could figure out what's so different about me and these guys that they want and cherish something that seems...