Recent content by Primarilyhurt

Already on Wellbutrin and Zoloft and have been since 2000. I'm even, my mood is fine, I'm not depressed. :) Thanks for the reminder to take care of basics. Times like this it's easy to forget to make myself the priority.

Thanks Annabel... That article is dead on exactly what I needed to read. I sent it on to my partner as well. Unfortunately, things imploded this afternoon. He sat me down for a talk that went something like this: ' since you seem unwilling to change and I am not willing to change or break up...

Thank you for your replies dinged and rose. His motivation for sharing the letter was that he wanted to get his parents opinion on what he should do, if he is doing the right thing, etc. He is very close to them. I don't think his intention by sharing it was malicious, but I did call him on...

Thanks for the responses Annabel and Schrondinger. I have been in therapy for over 10 years. I had finally gotten to a point where I was able to fully trust another human being and then this happened. The wounds opened up by this are obviously very deep. My perception of her is based on many...

I don't even know where to start. The situation has gotten so out of control. I've never been so hurt and angry in my whole life (and I was a victim of severe child abuse, a broken home, and many other betrayals). I hardly know what to do as everything I have tried has failed miserably to bring...

I agree. And, if that is a possibility, that in itself is a huge red flag. I would add, from my experiences: 1. When agreements are being renegotiated over and over again in a short amount of time. 2. When agreements continue to be questioned or subtly violated by one party or another. 3...

Ditto... No need to worry about labels. It seems like you are really hurting from lack of resolution of the matter, and I am sorry for that. It is very difficult to live happily when you know something is 'off' but can't quite figure out what you need to make it right. Confronting a tendency...