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"One of the many joys of polyamory is acknowledging the fundamental concept that no one person can be (or should be expected to) meet all of another person's needs and desires. You can't flip a pancake with a hammer, but that doesn't imply any kind of shame for the hammer. For driving nails...

I have played with the thought of finding a Dominant couple or another Dominant of whatever sex. But it would really just be for the fun of it, and I don't thnk now's the time. We are too early in the relationship and need to biuld more trust. Or so I believe.

Again, thanks! Hi all, again, thanks for these wonderful and wise inputs. Luckily, I am quite familiar with the techniques of cognitive (well, meta-cognitive) therapy (as it would be termed where I am from), so I *am* able to set thoughts aside and treat them as any other kind of more or less...

Thanks I'm already familiar with Brene :-) Thanks for reminding me.

Thanks, seems like a great collection of tools!

Mixed feelings. Hi all, hope my story in not completely old hat to you and that you can give me some advice. I’m a 46 YO man in a (new-ish) relationship with a wonderful poly woman. She has me as a romantic and sexual partner/boyfriend, and another male lover. She has been together, not...