Recent content by QingrenJu

Definitely still in a poly situation with the Musician. Starting to be a little more forthright with my responses to her complaints about the Thinker though. That is what has me wondering if I am perhaps a mono who is accepting poly by necessity.

The irony is that it is not the Artist I have chosen to walk away from. My primary connection is to the Musician ;)

Had to swallow the red pill this week that the mono on my side of the "Z" can't be happy in this context. Now wondering if I am actually poly, or just a man in love with another man's wife.

We lost the Artist this week. Not sad. Has made me wonder if I am actually a mono who wanted sauce for the gander ;)

I am you, you are me All rivers flow into the sea Smash this pointless boundary Of judgement and morality Know that all we think we see Is changing and illusory Spirit's voice says "Let it be" True love will set its object free Lie peacefully beneath the tree Of blissful polyamory I am you, you...

Thank you both for your advice. I am having dinner with The Musician tonight and she wants to discuss this issue. My point is that both of us have acquiesced to our other partner's request to limit "mentionitis" and focus on them when we are with them. Whilst I don't see my request as any...

She lives her life In Spirit true Her faithfulness A different hue The Earth is brown The Sky is blue Where there was one There now is two The heart bursts forth It's boundaries free The shackles of monogamy Now lie beneath That sacred tree Sprung from the seed She put in me She knows the...

Greetings all. Three months in and new to the forum. The best description of my situation would be that I am one hinge in a double hinged V. The Artist (female mono) in a long distance relationship with The Poet (male poly - me) in a primary emotional yet part-time relationship with The...

Greetings all. I have recently, to my own shock and amazement, discovered that I am a poly. As part of my spiritual awakening, I have been able to deal with my moral boundaries and am confident of my ability to live a non-traditional lifestyle in that regard. I have adult children who are aware...