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In one week my wife and I will meet our new love interests for the first time: a married couple from Idaho. They are flying out to spend the weekend with us. We are so excited!!! :D

So what method works best for you?

I would be happy to chat with you online in whatever form you wish. My wife wouldn't mind letting you vent to her, either. There are a couple of others in Idaho that we talk to on Google Hangouts as a group. We can do that, or Skype, or something else. I know we are not there in person, but we...

Hi there and welcome! I am glad you two decided to explore something new. Even though it didn't last, don't give up! There are billions of people in the world. You will find your perfect match in time. :)

Hi there, Bliss! Happy to know you. :) My wife and I only recently came out that we wanted to live the poly life. I am 41 and she is 26. We secretly desired multiple loves for years, but never had the courage to explore it, until now. We, too, live in a rural area right now, and are actually...

I send you big hugs, Seasiren. :)

First, I want to say you are a wonderful person for remembering to consider the feelings of your husband while exploring this new side of your life. So many people get caught up in the NRE and ignore everything else. Your desire to be with others will not go away, and so it does need to be...

Thank you for your kind words, Garriguette. :)

I'm so happy to hear your poly relationship is working out for you. Thanks for sharing! :)

I see you, Seasiren. :)

Bisexual: Not a Choice While coming out to certain people, in person, about being bisexual, I have encountered a response I did not expect. Two people (both women) suggested that I may change my mind about wanting to be with a man after I try it. The words "it's not a choice" sprang to mind -...

I'm glad my question spurred such a wonderful discussion! Thank you, all. :)

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Thank you for your insight. My wife is 26 and I am 41, so age means nothing to me. But I hear what you are saying. For me, behavior is the deciding factor, not age. I did ask the group's leaders, and here was the response: "We set up the first event as under 40 so that is what the default...

Any idea why a polyamory group would limit meetups to people under 40?