Recent content by quiet2girl2

sorry about being so cryptic. I think this post was born out of a need to vent and wasn't very thought out. But yes Nycindie, you are correct however you spin it I ended up much deeper than he did. One day I'm convincing myself that I made it all up, that there was never anything there to...

He's not a douche, and he never identified as poly. He's just a guy who found himself involved with a married woman with the consent of her husband.

I entered into what I thought was a poly relationship with someone who wasn't poly. oops. my bad. i'll never do that again. I had feelings he was just having sex. lesson learned

I've been dating my secondary for almost a year now, and while things are going well my husband hasn't had much luck finding someone special. he's getting to the point where he doesn't think the time effort and emotional roller coasters are worth it. I'm trying to convince him that many...

"should you provide for one of them if he decideds to leave" I think this is the kind of thing you need to discuss now, while things are good. But to me it depends on if you've made any sort of promises to either of them. if you ever said "oh come live with me and you won't have to work" to...

I'd be very very afraid. sounds like she is stating ultimatums. they never work

I like your list and it's a good start, but i would try to narrow it down a little. See what you can combine into one rule, sort of prioritize your list. at the end of the day it is all about compromise. it's no more fair that she announces what she wants to do in terms of having an open...

i've been lurking on this thread for days now, but haven't really had time to respond. I'm sorry I haven't had the time to read all the other posts, so if i'm repeating something from another post I apologize. a little background. I've been married 14 years. the first 7 were monogamous, then...

Thanks guys, :)

My husband and I have had many a discussion about loving more than one person at a time. I'm still trying to convince him it's possible, he's a little worried

Hey everyone, I'm a married with "tween" aged kids, and I've been seeing a guy who also has "tween" aged kids for a few months now. So my question to everyone who is making this work, is how do you balance time? I am definitely in a situation where I have a primary relationship (my marriage)...

I'm sure I'll lurk for a while,, but I just wanted to introduce myself. I'm in my mid thirty's, been married 14 years, and after years of swinging, I've settled into a relationship with a mutual friend of my husband and I's. Sex with others is nothing new to my husband and I , but having...