Recent content by quila

Two thoughts come to mind. My first is that I have a personal policy that whenever someone gives me an ultimatum, they lose. I've only had to put this policy into effect once. With good communication, I've been able to avoid situations that might have resulted in ultimatums (ultimata?) My...

My best friend and I were always mistaken for sisters. We look nothing alike. I guess I would be "motherly" with her son, and maybe that made me look like his aunt, which would make me her sister. But I think whenever you spend enough time with someone, or if you share a close bond, you tend to...

Not all women are obsessed with cock, big cocks, hard cocks, etc. Learn to use your tongue effectively, buy some good vibrators, learn how to stimulate a g-spot with your fingers, look into tantra... there are a LOT of ways to please a woman that don't require an erect penis. My husband can't...

I don't think anyone meant to attack you, Stewy. There were a lot of strong responses from people who have had experience with D/s who saw how your wife felt about what happened. At the time, from the tone of her post, it sounded like you made her have sex with someone that she didn't want to...

I'm just trying to imagine being your wife when you bring up the idea of a polyamorous relationship and how you want it to look. "Honey, I'm in love with two women, and I want M to come live with us, but I don't want you to have any boyfriends. Ok?" ... Somehow, I can't imagine that going over...

Well I replied to HER ad, and I don't actually care about her specifically, I've already written her off as a potential mate since she's obviously not poly-minded. It's not like she said "I have poly friends and I think they're full of shit." She's never heard of poly, and her only experience...

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I don't hold that view either, I guess one of the few views I hold with "society in general." Provided you have enough to avoid starving, you don't sacrifice anything by giving away food. But when's the last time you went down to the local hooker corner to "feed the hungry Johns"? In MS's...

qft!!!

Got a response: Even if she's found that her current relationship is going nowhere, am I wrong to believe that she's totally stringing her partner along by posting personal ads behind her partner's back? Even if they both know it's going nowhere, to me that doesn't justify the sneaking...

I always list myself as bisexual on dating sites, but I've already got one guy in my life and that's plenty! It would be very misleading for me to list myself as a lesbian, even if I'm only looking for women. Most of those sites make you list what gender you're seeking, so you can be a "married...

I know I'm not responsible for all those comments, but I did use the word "brag" in an earlier post, so I'm going to jump on that... you've completely taken it out of context. From what I remember of the other comments, none of them were generalizations about all young people or all young poly...

I don't think it's futile. You sensed that there may have been a subset of the poly community that may have been feeling left out, and you sought to remedy the situation. As far as the online community goes, I don't see a problem. I haven't checked out any of the poly groups for young people...

So I replied to a personal ad on kijiji, women seeking women, and I was very straight up that I am married to a man and desiring a romantic relationship with a woman. I got this very confused response: So I just had to comment on her hypocrisy of accusing me of setting someone up to get hurt...

I'm not sure who these marginalized people are supposed to be, but this whole thread reminds me of whenever my professors give the class lectures about being responsible students (homework on time, etc.), when most of the irresponsible students are skipping the lecture anyway. IOW, if they feel...