Recent content by Raccoon

Thank you all so much for your great advice. In regards to her wanting a baby, there was never at any point that they were planning on having a baby together. My husband isn't interested in that at all. I just wanted to clear up any confusion there. It's really nice to hear from such positive...

You are so right, I need to focus on where I stand. She said that she would still want to date him even if I wasn't okay with it, but with the two of us still being married, not us broken up. He said he didn't want to try if I wasn't okay with it. The swinging relationship was much more...

Okay, my husband dropped that he wanted to be poly on me, but after he already decided who he wanted to start dating. We are swingers and she is a half of a couple that we were swingers with. Going in to swinging he made it clear that he didn't want any romantic relationships and no one-on-one...

Galagirl, thank you so much! Everything you said was very insightful. It helps me even more knowing that it comes from someone that is experienced in the poly lifestyle. Thank you.

I accidentally left this out of the beginning of part 2! Sorry for the confusion all! Dave has expressed that he loves me more than anyone and always will. He says that there is no way that he will ever leave me. He has also stated that he will give me all the time I need to work through my...

I posted a part 1 to my part 2 and don't see it! I hope it pops up or 2 will be a little confusing. It was long too.

Part 2 Here is the continuation. I feel that there are some red flags about her. Dave and Betty had discussed the possibility of no condoms but Jim and I were not comfortable with that. I also recently discovered that Betty, who doesn't have children with Jim because they decided not to and he...

Part 1 Thank you for all of your responses. Just know that I am not here for anyone to attack me or my husband. I am here to get advice and perspective from others who are experienced and familiar to poly. I am not here to make anyone feel bad for whatever lifestyle choices they make. Please...

I am very new to any of this so bear with me! My world is confusing right now. So many things I thought would be, that I was so sure of are unclear now. I was once that girl who knew that he only loved me and I was sure of the same for my love to him. My thoughts on that have stayed the same...