Recent content by Rain

I want to thank all of you for your support, advice, point of views and obvious harsh truth. I appreciate it all tremendously. I am very grateful I found this forum.xo

Thank you. Your words are like a much needed warm hug.

True. Friendships are a beautiful thing and very valuable. I'm against cheating, and being friends after knowing his partner doesn't know felt like I was saying it was okay when it isn't. That's a valid question. No, he doesn't. I appreciate that. I shifted to friendship to be able to sit with...

Thank you. That is really well said. I was beating myself up about it, but then realized, why should I? My partner and I communicate openly, with hard topics as much as silly/goofy ones. I'm very honest and I need trust. I feel like I can't trust him because his partner doesn't know. What's to...

My thoughts exactly. I've already made the decision to walk away but I just needed to go through the emotions. It helps tremendously to hear that from someone else. I feel even deciding to strictly be friends, just me knowing they're partner doesn't know, is like I'm saying it's OK. When in...

My husband of 11 years and I are new to poly. We decided to dip our toes by joining a poly-dating website together. Looking to start a relationship with someone, first with friendship and see what blossoms. From past experience on dating sites from before our relationship, we thought that most...