Recent content by RainbowDreamscape

Muddy My husband and I have been reading Polyamory: the new love without limits, by Dr. Deborah M. Anapol. He is aware that I want to explore this, and is also aware and has acknowledged our different sex drives and needs right now. The reason I think I screwed up is because I didn't get his...

Agreed Logic-bending NRE is right. I went about it dishonestly and backwards.

Yes Here's my original post: mainly talking about my discussions with my husband. http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3983

Okay, here's the story. I had idealistic views on how my new polyamory thing would work out, thinking that I would meet some nice guy who would know I'm married and would be open to poly. He'd meet my husband, and everything would be perfect. It didn't quite work that way. I met an awesome guy...

Love it! Ok... :D

Onieda Reading something somewhere about the first "poly commune" being located in Onieda in the 1880's. That's cool.

Update I sent my hubby some links in a few emails today. He read them at work. We talked about it tonight. He said he is definitely not interested in "joining." I kept telling him: "It's not a group!" ;) He said he's supportive, but wants to stay mono, which I suspected. As for me seeking...

Love me some upstate!

More open-minded than I thought I had the talk with my husband. After spending a day with a friend, who dispensed a lot of great advice and helped me get my thoughts in order, I went home to another planned night of lovemaking, that again got railroaded by these issues my husband has been...

Married female, love men too much. I think women are physically more beautiful and sensual than men, which is more visually attractive, but I have never been interested in being with a woman sexually. Although I have in a couples situation.

Thanks, this is very helpful. :)

Thanks for all the insight! Very helpful so far. I am sorry, but I don't know the acronyms yet. So if you speak in them, would you please translate? Knowing me, it would have to be a "relationship relationship." I can't enjoy just sex without the emotional bonding that goes with it. I wouldn't...

I haven't broached the poly subject yet I'm the wife in a 6-year monogamous relationship with a great man. He's loyal, steadfast, and loving. We are best friends. We were both celibate before marriage, and our wedding night was our first time. he sex has been a beautiful experience of growing...

New, new, new. I'm a wife in a mono relationship for 6years. Haven't dipped our toes into the poly pool yet. Thinking it may be me... My husband seems like a mono- he knows our sex drives don't match. Considering my options, but just researching now. Want everything to be above board...