Recent content by RaspberrySurprise

Hi Amk I don't really have any advice, but I just wanted to say that I think you are dealing with this in a very mature and sensitive way. You obviously love your wife very much, and I hope it works out for both of you. Ann

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Agreed NeonKaos. I wouldn't want to make yet another person unhappy. I am asking questions to gain knowledge before leaping in to anything. It's why I am here.

Hi SourGirl Thank you for your input, I appreciate it. He definitely does think there is something wrong with me for barely having a sex-drive. He makes that pretty plain. As I explained above it could be hormonal or medical. Depression has been with me for sometime. I also take fluoxetine...

Hi Jade We had tried relationship therapy, talking and s&m. It was his suggestion but it is a logical choice if you take the negative emotion out of it for me that is! He doesn't want a no strings attached relationship, he wants an open and honest "love" one. It is the thought of not being...

It is entirely possible that hormonal and medical conditions affect my libido. I have Polycystic Ovaries and depression. I take medication for the depression which could also suppress libido. With the S&M I believe he wants a submissive and he wants to be Dominant. He also wants to inflict...

Hi nycindie, It's all very complicated (isn't it always). We have been together for more than 15 years. The sexual side of our relationship has never been very good because he is more interested in sex than me. I would much rather have a cup of tea and browse facebook, or catch up on my...

Hello My husband and I are thinking about including another person in our relationship. I want my husband to be happy which is why I am seriously considering this. I don't really have any set ideas of what a poly relationship could be like which is why I am asking questions. I kind of want to...