Recent content by ravenmaid37

@GalaGirl That is all excellent advice. I mentioned above I'm seeing him on Thursday for the first time since her viewing, so maybe then I'll suggest we tone it down a bit and my reasons why. What you said about trying to avoid the relationship being all about her death really resonates. If we...

Argura calle @Val76 I'm so sorry you had to experience something so terrible and it's wonderful that you have found ways to work though it. We all need to remind ourselves that these tragedies weren't our fault. I've replayed the events of the day over and over, feeling pain at the moments when...

Thank you so much for your reply, and I'm so sorry about your wife. I'm happy to hear you're starting to feel more like yourself again. He's said a few times that he's worried about hurting me and others since his moods and wants are all over the place, which I appreciate. I agree being in...

CW: Suicide I’m a polyamorous woman with a nesting partner and two serious boyfriends. About two months ago, I connected with John*, a polyam Dad who lives nearby. We had a fantastic first date where the conversation never faltered and we ended the night making out in his car like teenagers. We...