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He lied to her because it was easier than explaining everything. She's the "one that got away" in high-school and he wanted to have her back. He lied to me because he knew I would throw a fit if she didn't know what was going on.

This whole situation is so out of character for him, it's hard to describe. There's a part of me that does want to just label him the bad guy and move on, but he isn't. He made a ridiculously stupid decision that got out of control and ended up hurting everyone. But he's a good guy. In the end...

I guess I should have mentioned that he really is an amazing partner and father. Several years of being together and this is the first time he's ever done something like this. I did explain my feelings on the matter and why I was hurt. He recognized this and has made an effort to "fix" things...

1. Yes. 2. No. We both were of the same mindset when we started our relationship. 3. He told her (a) I was a very good friend, (b) the baby wasn't his, (c) he and I did not have a preexisting relationship. 4. He told me that she was 100% aware of our relationship/our family and that she was...

I need to know if I'm acting crazy or controlling. My fiancé and I have been in a relationship for several years and have a family together. We've always been open and usually have great communication. Last month, a women came back into his life and he made some very poor decisions. He lied to...