Recent content by RedNeck

Just talked to me. Asked me to stay, it was unexpected. I didn't think it would solve any problems, in fact I thought it would create more problems some I'm sure I haven't even considered yet. Which is kind of why I was wanting advice. We have been talking about our problems and working things...

So my boyfriend and I had a rough year last year. I really thought we were done, and I had decided that when I started dating again I was going to have more than one partner or at least try to. As it turned out he wouldn't let me leave and so we talked a lot, and I ended up staying which is...

Well I think that was an unfortunate word choice on my part. He has told me that he thinks of other girls in more than a platonic way, and I think once he gets used to the idea and believes girls will want him, he may even like it. As far as accepting me while he stays mono. I'm not sure how...

I'm 32 old female in a long term relationship. I've read a lot on the internet about poly stuff and I think it's very interesting. A few weeks ago I brought up the idea of opening up our relationship to my boyfriend and while he didn't get upset, he didn't really like the idea. He kept asking...