Recent content by redrose129

update: It's been a while, i thought i'd revisit my post and update everyone. So in January I met the most beautiful girl in the world. :) We have been dating ever since. I'm still with my hubby as well. It have been a very "cautious" situation but luckily, her and her husband have been...

thank you Passport. I failed to mention that being out at least to "some" is important as well. and your right, if I lowered my bar, i wouldnt be satisfied because my standards are my needs. if they aren't met, im not satisfied. thank you for your response, as well. It's nice to hear the...

thank you! sometimes you know something but you need to hear i to understand it. your right...I have a choice. its a rather frustrating choice and to be true to oneself can hurt. I must keep the bar up and wait. sometimes it just frustrates the heck out of me that I could be talking to sooo...

I'm not sure how much of my story I've told so I'll do a brief synopsis: I've been married now for 10 years, I have one 6 year old. I have been with my husband since I was 14 with the exception of 1 6 month breakup where i met 2 exes. Anyway, almost 3 years ago, i met a lady and realized I...

Very interesting. Wow.

Hi there!! nice to meet you. SSA = same sex attractions. I'm not familiar with all the abbreviations either. I only know that one because I came out as queer/bisexual first. I was raised that telling the truth up front is always a hundred times better than getting caught in a lie. So I didn't...

Well, being in my situation, it's difficult to answer. Unlike the two previous posts, my husband and I have never previously discussed anything other than a "Christian" lifestyle. A few years ago, I came out and told him I have SSAs and was considering having a gf. We have been married 10 years...