Recent content by RedSonja

I was in an "open" relationship with my ex for 4 years on and off. For 18 months he had a girlfriend that did not know that he was sexually active with other people. At the time I was seeing another guy, plus I was "out" to the majority of people in my life. For a long time I locked up how I...

I have three major ex's and several minor ex's. Ex one - together 5 years, both mono, we broke up, he became quite bitter about it and it took us 10 years to come full circle and actually talk. I have no ill will towards him and am happy we are able to talk these days but I wouldn't count him...

I'm sorry that you're still struggling KC43 :( I found that I had to have a similar conversation with Droid that whilst it was great to give me several orgasms, I did get frustrated with him not cumming. After several discussions we have finally found a good compromise for us both. Nerdist is...

Nerdist is 5 years younger than me, Droid is 5 months older than me. I've never dated older than me, youngest has been an 8 year age gap.

I'm barrier free with both of my partners. We have an agreement that any new sexual partners we have, we are to practice safer sex protocols with until any and all relevant testing has come back clear. I have an IUD for birth control. We all get tested every 6-12 months.

Hi Reverie, I just wanted to say that I love your blog and have been reading since I joined up a couple of months ago :) I also wanted to offer up hugs after your recent std test/diagnosis. I went through something similar about a year ago. Droid decided to get tested as he hadn't been...

Chapter 4 - Nerdist So during my time on the sex based forum I chatted to some great people and forged some wonderful relationships. One of the first people to message me on there was a fellow Australian. He paid attention to the little things, was firm with me when I needed it and was there...

Chapter 3 - The Tradie Whilst the Hulk and I were together I became friends with the Tradie. When the Hulk and I broke up, the Tradie decided we should date. I was all for this as a casual thing....2 months in we were exclusive and I was back in a monogamous relationship :rolleyes: We lasted...

Chapter 2 - The Hulk Returns My first long term relationship started off as a bit of an awkward V. The Hulk and I had been best friends for 5 years by this stage and he was dating a girl, Belle. Six months after high school finished we started seeing each other whilst he was still with Belle...

So as they say....let's start at the beginning.... As a teen I couldn't stay in a relationship longer than 3 months as I was interested in more than one person at the same time and would end up fooling around with another boy and then ending things or ending it before I cheated. There were a...

I have bright red hair, my nickname at work is Red, so it was a play on that. Red Sonja is a comic book character that I liked the look of so I went with it :) Was going to use the screen name I had on another forum but it was already taken (Sleeping Beauty), which was because of the A Perfect...

Thanks Kevin :) I'll get started on that blog post soon!

Hi, I've been lurking around for about a month reading a heap of helpful threads and thought I would finally join up and introduce myself. :) I'm 33, female, bi-curious and live in Melbourne, Australia. After many years identifing as monogamous (as I didn't really know there was anything else...