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    Just confused

    Big red flag Vinccenzo!! Lol. Only dating polys from here on out.
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    Just confused

    Well, I thought she was more understanding. But, like I repeatedly stated Vinccenzo, if she would have brought it to me I would have been fine with it. I mean anything, seeing other people, not being exclusive, whatever. All I wanted was straightforwardness and honesty. That's it, bottom line...
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    Just confused

    Like they say, hindsight is 20/20 😔 I see it all so clearly now that it's over. Well, I have learned a valuable lesson. Unfortunately some feelings for her do remain but with time I'm sure will dissolve. Thanks for the input Magdlyn.
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    Just confused

    You're Right I did say I took her phone. I did take her phone just like she would take my phone to check up on me. I mean it wasn't like I took it by force. I just asked, "Could I see your phone?" She would ask me the same thing and I always handed it over because I had nothing to hide. She...
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    Just confused

    Seriously? You're splitting hairs. I did ask to see her phone. And she was seeing someone. If you want clarification, just ask. I didn't have time to write a novel that's why I put if you want clarification on anything .....ask.
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    Just confused

    Ok, so i met her through my wife's bf at the time. When i started talking to her (she was mono) I made absolutely sure that she was ok with my situation,that she understood it, and that it didn't bother her in any way. This is before we even decided to meet each other. She said yes she...
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    Just confused

    Thanks guys for all the constructive criticism/help. I would love to share the details of the whole relationship perhaps that would shed light on a lot of things for everyone who replied to my post. I did go ahead and email her and she showed me her true colors, which I knew were hiding...
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    Just confused

    Thanks Mags for your response. Yes, unfortunately I did use sarcasm in my response only because I was hurting and angry. In hindsight I now see it wasn't the best way to respond. I feel she is gone as well. I just wish honesty wasn't such a hard thing to find. I guess I can chalk this one up as...
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    Just confused

    I'm a 38 year old male who just broke up with a 28 year old female. I am in an open marriage and my ex and wife were aware of each other and the situation. Before I started dating Mollie (ex) she expressed to me that she would eventually want to settle down with someone and start a family. I...
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    Hey Phoenix, is a 38 from Philly too old?

    Hey Phoenix, is a 38 from Philly too old?
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    Hey, read your profile and wanted to say hi. I'm a 38/m from Philly been in an open marriage now...

    Hey, read your profile and wanted to say hi. I'm a 38/m from Philly been in an open marriage now for seven years. If you're interested message me back and maybe we can talk. 😊
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    Grieving and Coping Help

    Thank you all for your input/advice. It does help to reassure me in those weak moments that I want to text or call her. I keep telling myself to be strong, look ahead and, don't give in! I truly am better off without her but my heart isn't quite ready to accept it.
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    Grieving and Coping Help

    I'm a 37 year old married poly male from Philadelphia who just got out of a relationship with a 26 year old non poly female. Here's the story. We were set up by my also poly wife and her non poly boyfriend. We began dating at the beginning of February of this year after talking about a month...
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    New here, from Philly, PA Anyone from the area?

    Welcome Nikki! My name is Dave I'm 36 and live in East Falls/Germantown area of Philly. Looking to meet new people as well and hopefully make friends.
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