Recent content by Respectablegains

Hence my decision to stick it out for a while and see where it goes. And trust me we will be doing allot more than hugging next we see each other :p (this Sunday wew!) but no she's not on this site, or OKC, or any other online media except FB and rarely even that.

Well the reason to go poly is multifaceted. Myself and my girl love each-other very much that's true and we were ok in our monogamy for the time being but both of us acknowledge that it would not be an indefinite thing. Both of us (especially if we were ever to get married) would eventually want...

Well, allot of the times they are curios, didn't say or were ambiguous enough about it to either flirt or go out on a date with me. Its usually one of the first (if not thee first) thing I bring up. Then they inform me that lol jk they want me all to themselves and wont go any further because im...

Thanks for the advice! I think while I do have a disadvantage in orientation and gender I think I can make this work. Never one to back down from a challenge (though it is irksom to play against a stacked hand) and we will see how I feel about all this a few months down the road. Hell Ive only...

Ugh... See its shit like this, every terrible grotesque opener sent on OKC that the person would never say face to face when trying to get a date makes my job that much harder. I don't usually get messaged first cause, you know, I'm a dude. However this is actually one of my favorite questions...

To Emm, well I am not sure, But I do live in the pacific northwest and Kink and Poly seem to go hand in hand here. Evie, well If I am ever in new zealand or your in the puget sound drop me a line :D

Thanks for your input Dagferi, its kinda what Ive been noticing. Recently I went on a few dates with a lovely lady, everything was going really well and then I get dear jon'd out of nowhere because she says she doesn't want to do the poly thing even though she really liked me. Right now I pretty...

Hey all I am relatively new to the lifestyle (only a few months) and I have some questions that hopefully some of you can answer. Let me give you a quick background synopsis so you have some context. My girl and I had always wanted to give poly (or at least non-monogamy) a go, and life happened...

Hey all I am new to poly and I would like some advice from some of the Vets. So I just kinda fell into it, I am not much of kinkster (Light BDSM, ropes n gags that sort of thing) and was monogamous for a long time with my "Anchor" so to speak but, circumstances were such we now live in different...