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    Need Help with Son hitting puberty

    I haven't read till the end of this thread, so I'm not certain if anyone remembers this point in the conversation, but I had to react to this psycological damage point... As someone who is still quite young (I'm 18 and only just left home for uni) I completely agree with this post. I was...
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    Very stressed about Family

    And vice versa! :o
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    Disabilities

    Building off the "there is no normal" person statement, and how describing ourselves should be a thing of pride; I try to avoid using terminology in general. Just a personal example is when asked my sexual preferences, I don't like to say "bisexual," but prefer to say "I'm attracted to both...
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    Very stressed about Family

    I think it should be mentioned that BoyF's mother would have an extra sensitivity to learning we are poly; as BoyF's father cheater on her two times, with the second leading to a divorce. She's a very traditional person who is extremely rooted in her christian faith, and while it would certainly...
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    I love the Reeds! I just finished reading A Feast For Crows and I missed hearing their storyline :)

    I love the Reeds! I just finished reading A Feast For Crows and I missed hearing their storyline :)
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    Is your name from game of thrones? :)

    Is your name from game of thrones? :)
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    I have just chosen poly over a potential monogamous life mate. Whoa.

    My boyfriend and I went through a similar crossroads and while it turned out we both wanted to explore the polyamorous route, things could have been different, and nearly were a few times. I commend your bravery and strength in sticking with what you know is going to be best for you; and it's...
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    Polyamorous girlfriend wants to see ex-boyfriend...am I right to feel uneasy?

    I don't think any of this arguing is going to help the person who made this post; so maybe we should stop? Disagreements are going to happen, doesn't mean anyone needs to be up in arms about them. I can sympathize a lot with the poster because I'm also brand new to this, and I've had similar...
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    Brand new, figuring this out as we go along!

    It's kind of an affectionate way of saying someone's silly or dumb :)
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    Brand new, figuring this out as we go along!

    SORRY haha, I like your name pick though! May I introduce you all to Sonas, Boyfriend's other lady and my best friend? <3 Boyfriend needs to make an account so we can stop calling him Boyfriend xD
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    Brand new, figuring this out as we go along!

    We'll see if we ever need that talk haha... I'm sure he would support me wholeheartedly, probably even better than how I've been supporting him, but while I can definitely see myself wanting a casual sexual relationship with a lady (I don't think it would be very healthy for me to never explore...
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    Brand new, figuring this out as we go along!

    Well this is awkward.... sorry for inconveniencing whichever mod is going to have to look through those two posts! I thought there had been an error, so I sent it again. Disregard the first one :)
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    Brand new, figuring this out as we go along!

    We'll see if we ever need that talk haha... I'm sure he would support me wholeheartedly, probably even better than how I've been supporting him, but while I can definitely see myself wanting a casual sexual relationship with a lady (I don't think it would be very healthy for me to never explore...
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    Brand new, figuring this out as we go along!

    We'll see if we ever have to have that talk haha... I'm sure if it ever did happen he would be as supportive of me as I was of him, but honestly, I don't see it happening. I would love to have a casual female friend to get out urges, if you get my drift, because I think it would probably be...
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    Brand new, figuring this out as we go along!

    Thanks to all of you for being so supportive! And firstofthree, thanks for the tip about giving things time. :) I don't know if I really want to be sexual alone with her, not because she isn't gorgeous or anything but because we've never had even a hint of a romantic relationship. We're still...
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