Recent content by ricky

Yes, thank you. It’s not my best attribute (at least when it’s important). I spoke with my therapist about it this morning. I’m going to talk to my wife S first, and then K. My wife has been away for the past week, so it’s given me time to collect my thoughts. I’m so nervous she will be upset...

Thank you so much for your thoughtful and detailed answer. I will read and educate myself before having the big talk with them (still nervous but it feels better that there are others like yourself that have been there). Thank you again, R.

This is really good advice. I’m going to talk to my wife S first (as soon as I can find a time with her alone). And then, if I get a positive response (& I’m going to give her as much time as she needs to consider)I will speak to K. Just need to build up the courage now. Thanks again for your...

Yes your right I suppose. I hadn’t thought about it like that. Open honest communication is key and I will build up the courage to have a big chat with them. Thank you for your advice, R

Hi, I’ve just joined the group and there’s loads of great advice here, so thank you everyone. I’m asking for advice on what to do next (if anything at all). I live with my wife and my best friend. I’m male (49), my wife S (46) and friend K (35) & we have all lived together happily for over a...