I thank you for your well worded response. This is exactly the dialog I need.
I did ask my wife if she had feelings for my mate and she said he has always been a close friend. As for him I can not say. He has been single for a long time and I know he does find my wife very attractive...
Firstly thank you for your response. I had never heard of a messy lost before. Still confused though. I've known this guy for years. And he is one of the best blokes I know. Back when we tried swinging my wife had a couple of hookups and it freaked me out because I didn't know what the...
Thanks for taking the time to read this and give advice.
First the story. My wife and I have been together for about 11 years. Completely mono for the first 10 then dipped our toes unsuccessfully in the swinging pool. Swinging just created drama between us as the rules were fuzzy and to be...
