Recent content by rizty

Wasn't sure if I should make a new post or not so I just decided to post here. The past month has been chaotic in many aspects. My bf had given me an ultimatum and told me to pick just being with him or he was ending it. I told him I wasn't picking one way or the other because I wanted to be...

Update So things have just gotten worse with the situation since I last posted. My boyfriend is now saying he doesn't want us to have anyone else involved in our relationship and wants us to be strictly monogamous. I'm pretty upset about this, because we had an understanding from when we first...

I'm hoping since it's been so long since he's tried anything I will be able to get him to see that there may be other options now. It will take time but I think with some convincing from his friends, who know I've been worried about him, we can talk him into at least giving it a shot. It takes a...

He is unfortunately pretty unwilling to do therapy or take meds. He's tried in the past and says they didn't help him. I'm trying to get him to try at least going to therapy again.

I don't know what to think of how things are going at the moment. Me and my boyfriend have been talking, and now he's saying he doesn't know if he wants this for either of us. It's aggravating me greatly that he was ok with the idea of both of us being with other people, until I actually had...

I'm not wanting to prove he's wrong in any way. Just wondering if I'm the one in the wrong for wanting to push forward with this new guy when it's obviously upsetting my boyfriend. I have plans to see him again this weekend. Just lunch and then a haunted house. I don't know how to bring it up...

I think it's a combination of things. He hasn't said, but I think he sort of wishes that I'd just decided to not see him because he had said earlier that day he didn't want me to. I think he's just emotionally upset because I'd be very obviously excited about meeting this guy. I think another...

He asked me not to see the guy I've been talking to the other day. I told him I didn't really think that was fair because I've worked through stuff for him when he wanted to do the threesome and then he remained seeing that person for a little while. He said he knew it was selfish but he didn't...

We talked at length about how we wanted to do this again and how we wanted to go about it to make us both feel comfortable. For weeks we've been discussing it, and his seasonal depression has set in. He's suddenly got cold feet and doesn't want me seeing anyone. I'm kind of upset about it. I've...

I think the jealousy comes from feeling like he's going to care about me less or something along those lines if he's with someone else. I don't have the best self esteem and confidence to begin with so I'm afraid someone better is going to come into his life and there won't be a need for me anymore.

Hello there! Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. A few months into our relationship we talked about wanting to have an open relationship. We made the decision last winter to try a threesome, which was my first experience with a woman period and it went terribly to be...