Recent content by Rorschach

Hi all, I couldn't find a thread on this but my searching may have not been thorough so apologies if this has been covered elsewhere. I'm in the early weeks of a new secondary relationship and it is progressing to the stage of deeper intimacy but neither of us can host for various reasons. The...

Thank you. I was wondering if Meta meant something else other than shorthand for metamour so thank you for clarifying.

Hi @GalaGirl this might be a dumb question, but where can I read more about meta skills and developing them? I did some searching but couldn't find what I think you are referring to.

That all makes sense and is helpful to read. Thank you.

This is very helpful. Yes, it feels like this is maybe what is happening here. Thank you. Your reply has been sooo helpful.

Hi, Thanks so much for your reply. It didn't sound mean - just honest and helpful. There's a load of good stuff in what you have said for me to think about and us to talk about, so thank you. Geo

Hi, thanks for your reply. I think theres a lot of helpful stuff and likely true stuff in what you say. I think the main thing that is making it more difficult for me is that I am trying to de-programme myself to be more OK with her being with somebody else (through therapy and self study and...

Hey thanks for your reply. Yes, we have lots of sleepovers, normally weekly for 1 or 2 nights. And no life objectives for me that are conflicted here. Same for her as far as I am aware from our conversations.

I'm finding my relationship increasingly difficult and not really got anyone to talk to about it/make sense of it. My struggle is that the more we fall for each other, the more difficult I find it, knowing she sleeps with her long-term partner. What makes this even more difficult for me is...