I am considered very attractive and I wouldn't change anything about the way that I look other than getting my pre-pregnancy stomach and breasts back.
And yes, we have done some role-play. Mostly, during sex we would talk about what the experience would be like for him.
Wow, thank you all for the responses. You have no idea how much it helps.
I mean I worry I am less exciting and desirable to him than the younger women.
I guess I am into age disparity in general. I like older men and younger women. When I fantasize about younger women it is always from the older man's perspective. I am bisexual but I don't think about ME having sex with her, it's always some guy. I don't understand it myself.
My husband/primary partner's interest in younger women is proving to be too difficult for me to process. He's 34, I'm 31 and he's been dating women that are in the 18-21 range. I can't stop feeling like he clearly wants something specific that I don't have and that I'm less sexually exciting and...