Recent content by Rottngrl

Pink has tried some dates on her own, but she says its so much harder to find. Hence this unhealthy cycle theyve been stuck in.

Hi Kevin T. Yes, but there is so much and I dont want to dump it all on them. I plan to talk to Blue first, about Pink letting go of the permission rules. That's the biggest issue for me right now. Maybe thats the only thing I ask we address with Pink right now. I know I dont want to partipate...

Hi booboofish, It doesn't sound like you've tried much at all. And I want to be clear this is NOT only your problem. Increasing your maturation or being the initiator won't help. I do believe the better the chemistry the better the sex, and my libido. Sounds like you fell into a routine, and I...

Communication has been lacking, I've had some moments of it with each but not together since the original convo about being a poly triad. Pink is bi and wants a woman to want her, so i think thats why they kept swinging. I'm hetero but I pay her attention that randoms don't during funtime, and...

Kevin T. Well its either me or randoms, and Blue's tired of the randoms too. Pink is bi and and wants a F that wants her. I do the funtime, pay attention to her, (unlike the randoms) but im hetero. I understand you can't help how you feel. We just need to talk about what we each want and...

Wow, you guys are really amazing. I didnt expect such great responses, and I want to reply to many of them because there are some great perspectives. UPDATE!! I finally heard back from Blue, as I was giving time for dust to settle. Maybe I jumped to the worst conclusions. I suspect they...

Sounds like your are the mistress and he has a monogamous relationship with another woman and thats why he dodges you when hes with her.

Hi, new to the forum, and new to all this. I've never had any meaningful relationships, and find I get bored of people easy. I wish I really read up on this a few years ago, so maybe things would have played out differently if I had realized what I was getting into could never work. I didn't...