Thank you Galagirl for being understanding. Still dealing with the first response from the other poster emotionally.
At this point the boundaries feel fairly solid and comfortable with everyone. I guess what I'm struggling with is how to get back to being okay with them being sexual at all...
I appreciate a certain amount of bluntness and I understand that a lot of people don't agree with that kind of thing in the community. However i would like to be clear that this isnt just imposed on him/them.
As I mentioned, one of the reasons he was okay with the rule is because he would want...
Warning: I'm long-winded and green :o
About 5 months ago I 'accidentally' ended up in a relationship with a friend of mine. I have been very good friends with him and his wife since they've been together and I knew them both separately before they dated (over 15 years now).
I say accidentally...