Recent content by Saide

Yes, like some of the threads on the forum, I was blind sided and felt utterly betrayed. It hurt for some time but not as much as losing the family I wanted. I did not get custody of the boys. He and his ex-wife were constantly using the children as pawns in their on-going custody battles and...

It seems to me that there alot of issues in play here. Her depression and declining self esteem made her a perfect subject for a domineering (not dominant) and manipulative connection with this "friend" who'd come out of a bitter divorce. Over the years and at the many BDSM events I've...

Thanks for welcoming me Hi and thank you for your welcome. I have remained single and unattached for 8 years now. Had a few sexual encounters but nothing that captured me interest or passion for that matter. I did not remain in the new poly dynamic simply because it was announced to me fait...

Hi - I am a single straight 50 year old woman living in Canada who has always been a sexual explorer. All through my life, I have sought out different communities to learn from them and learn about myself. Been involved in the BDSM community as both a participant and workshop presenter. One of...

Wondering about polyandry too After one marriage and a couple unsatisfying monogamous relationships, I recalled a time in my life where I had three lovers in my life. And while it might not be defined as polyandrous, it was the one time in my life I felt content emotionally, sexually and...