Recent content by SaintAugust

I lieu of recent situations in my own life, I wanted to pose a hypothetical scenario, and if anyone has experienced the situation, see how they have dealt with it. Say you have been in a monogamous relationship for a year +. You are not looking to be poly or looking for another partner. But...

Trust me, I was wondering the same thing. Apparently, she was curious. The first time, she was caught off guard. She doesn't handle getting caught off guard very well. She freezes in that situation. But when it happened again, she decided to try it. She has told me before that she was curious if...

It's good advice. I suppose I've been thinking that I need to confront her with a solution, or my feelings. But just genuinely asking her what she wants out of these relationships is a good idea. As for what I want, if she is interested in poly, and Pat goes for the idea, I certainly wouldn't...

Here's the situation: I am in a monogamous relationship that has been going on for more than a year. About a month ago, my girlfriend Pat and I realized that our closest mutual female friend, Paula, most likely had a romantic interest in me, given our observations about how she has been acting...