Recent content by saltizen

I wanted to come back and provide an update here. I never responded to the latest round of replies, but I did read them all as they were coming in and I thought they were helpful. I broke up with Alex this past weekend, after we ended the break and got back into contact. It was really tough to...

Yeah, this is what I'll do. Maybe it's possible that the NRE is going away or transforming into something else, although I think the magnitude of my feelings towards Roy is just as strong as ever. I definitely did get butterflies thinking about him for a while at the beginning, and while I...

Thank you, SEASONEDpolyAgain, GalaGirl, and Kevin T. for the thoughtful replies. I don't think I can fully grasp the Kierkegaard quote at the moment, but what I'm getting out of it is that regret will happen in life no matter what I choose to do, and I think I agree. So no, potential regret is...

Hello all, I've been going through a really uncertain time and I'm looking for fresh perspectives on my situation. I (M) have been in an open relationship with my primary partner Alex (M) for over 8 years. I love Alex deeply and the relationship has by and large been a happy one. Over the years...