Recent content by samines

Update! :D CGG was falling in love with me, I was definitely not falling for him, the kissing did not happen again. No big deal. What I really wanted to post about has nothing to do with relationships/being poly/ any such. I'M GONNA MOVE OUT!! :D First place on my own, and it looks like I...

You're not being a jerk! :) I completely agree with you. I'm not looking for songs that mention polyamory, but just some less "poorly written" songs, as you say ;) A lot of songs I've been hearing are (unintentionally) naive, and it's particularly annoying me that they involve so many...

Oh, thank you! :)

Poly-friendly love songs Hey! I collect... er, hoard... music; love finding new songs, love making playlists, etc... but I've been getting frustrated recently. An awful lot of love songs seem to focus on the idea of a "one and only", which doesn't mesh well with poly... and also, a personal pet...

When I saw this... ... my first reaction was (as an 18 yr-old who has fallen twice for couples with kids) to buck against it. I hate it hearing that because I'm young, I should go practice dating mono for a while, or I should stay away from complicated situations, as if being older somehow...

More stuff going on.... Updates to my story! Tonight, and why I logged on to type: as of about 4 hours ago, I am no longer a "never-been-kissed" girl. If I need to come up with nicknames to use on here, this is Cute Guitar Guy. We had a sort of date tonight, we did music for a little while and...

I'm terrible at keeping things up-to-date, so don't expect too much, but I decided to start a thread to talk about me :) I am the stereotypical "unicorn" in a lot of ways- I'm 18, female, bi, skinny... also, compersion really gets to me, so I tend to be attracted to couples. Oh, and I'm...

Maybe it would help to figure out what thoughts would lead to being jealous- Are you afraid to lose her? Or afraid someone else will hurt her? You think you're doing something wrong, since you're used to monogamy? There's tons of things it could be, but I find that knowing my thought process...

Yes. It could be that. Especially, it's mostly E that's flirting, and it took me a while to decide that it seemed like anything more than just joking around... It is odd that thinking about that is actually a little comforting? I'd much rather it just be that I'm impatient, they really do like...

I know! And I'm glad I've taken the time to think through it. But... Out of the blue. It's not like we've been talking about any of this, and I have no clue what's going on in A or E's heads right now of course, but I thought we were flirting, it was so obvious, almost impossible to ignore...

Yay! :D I like this camp. It's funny... even at 18, it seems a little creepy when a 26 year old wants to chat with me on okc... and I am a little hesistant- even though I am a fairly stereotypical unicorn!- when I see a couple in their 20's-30's looking for a gf. There's a pretty deeply...

Yeah, I had to wonder myself, about the pattern thing... I think it's just natural for me, it's not based on anything in particular I want or am scared of. You know what's funny? It's my mom that helped me accept it, in a way. Long story but basically, she heard about my attraction to my...

Yeah, I tend to ramble... :o lol I think it sounds worse than it is. We assume that any 30-something that's willing to date an 18-year-old is... not the best person to begin with. This could be a healthy relationship, that goes where it will, and even if it ends in the near future- if we're...

I'll start out saying, you seem to have a very inflexible opinion on the student/professor relationship, and I don't quite agree- but I take it that's because of your position as a professor, and I do really appreciate that you're part of the discussion. :) Yes, it is about the context to a...

Yeah, I've actually been looking online for someones... I have an okcupid account, there's actually quite a few unicorn-seekers on there but none that have caught my attention yet... I posted on here in the dating forum but only heard from one couple... I've joined a local poly group- everyone...