Recent content by Sandrahelen89

Thanks for letting me know. In the jungle of judgement I have received even from my closest friends in the last weeks it is really difficult to continue to trust my own gut feelings for what I actually want for my life. It does not help that I live in one of the most traditional cities in Europe...

The agreement to be honest right away was something we decided a year ago. Writing the proposal is in the end my decision. I have a great opportunity to work with good people, and our future relationship state isn't going to change the fact that it is my choice. And even if the relationship...

Tell me about it.. how many times have I wished that I would feel things on the same level as most people around me. But as a highly sensitive person, I don't have the choice to just shut it off. I sure try, but I have never learned that skill of putting an emotion or thought into the mental...

Thank you all for the advice. I am still upholding the agreement of no communication, even though it is difficult and I have no motivation for writing my own proposal. I can uphold the agreement, but I can't change my feelings and my mood. I can choose not to dump these on my partner, but...

Hi all, I am new to this forum and new to polyamory. I have been in a committed monogamous relationship with a man for 3 years and our relationship is great (I'll refer to him as my long-term partner). A few weeks ago I met another man and fell deeply in love. After some soul-searching I...