Recent content by sarahfina

Thanks for the continued responses. The input, feedback and reflection has been really helpful. Things are still as they were when I first posted. I guess my main approach right now is to avoid jumping to quick conclusions and decisions, while also being as honest with myself and my others as...

Yes, exactly. I share some of the thoughts others wrote about poly being great for finding what we need in more than one person, since no one person can ever provide it all. I guess part of the challenge now is that I am finding my OSO meeting all of my major needs, but not really being in the...

Thank you so much, everyone, for your responses so far. It is helpful to share this with people who are constructive in their thinking! In answer to some of the questions coming up: Yes, I have shared quite a bit of this with my husband. He knows that my experience with my OSO has led me to see...

Since deepening relationship with "secondary," feelings changing for "primary" I am in an open marriage that came out of my husband's longing for this freedom. It took us a couple of years to get here, and was the result of me seeing that he would not likely be able to stay in our marriage (of...