Recent content by sassiebgassi

Thank you so much

Thank you

A few things that should be clarified. We were not seeking out anyone. She had sexual freedom beyond our relationships. No rules were in pkace before we developed the relationships, no guidelines were put in place unless thoroughly discussed amongst us all. We all had each other and worked...

No, I don't seek that

I hope someone finds rhis all helpful.

Hmmm some applies, most does not. But ty I will save this.

Ty i will check it out.

Ty. Yes we both are doing individual therapy as well. There won't be any additional person any time soon. I will consider all you have said. Ty so much

I would never do what you assumed here

It's more complicated than that. We have opened up much more since all this happened. She has attempted further divide and conquer, and we are working hard to move forward together. 20 uears and one instance of infidelity. Ty for your thoughts. I appreciate your kindness

You're making (incorrect) assumptions here

My husband and I were the primary relationship, our individual relationships with her were secondary, all agreed with this before sex ever happened. 20 years, you think I'm going to just swoop that aside?

We had separate date nights, built separate connections with one one intimacy, aside from sex, between each angle of the tri.

NO!!!! She works. She had a place prior to coming here. We all had rules, some of which SHE suggested, the date night thing she suggested. Wth. No

Plus we suspect she may be selling herself, if you get my meaning. And he did not use protection so now I have to go to the dr and get tests.